During Covid-19 the Reverend Tony Gilbert has been live-streaming a Word for the Day on the Three Valleys Team facebook page.

Here are the texts for you to read at your leisure.



Friday 5th June 2020


A child asked their priest or, if you prefer, vicar parent. ‘where do you get your ideas for your sermons from?’ The reply quickly came back ‘from God of course’ ‘So said the child if the words come from God why do you keep screwing up the paper, throwing it in the bin and starting again?’

Two things strike me about this story.

The first is that perhaps the child was right in implying that its parent was not hearing God and was either blocking the message from coming through properly or alternatively, not liking it when it began to take shape so that it was discarded.

The second thing to strike me is our need to create. The sermon writer wants to create something memorable and worthwhile. In this we do show that we are made in the image of God who is the great creator of everything so it is hardly surprising then that we should wish to create as well.

Unfortunately, we are part of a fallen human race and sometimes we let our desire to create get in the way of our ability to listen to what God actually wants us to do or say. It’s can be a difficult conundrum and something we need to work on every day.

The assumption in the story at the beginning of this thought is that the child does not really understand the process but perhaps that is wrong. Perhaps the child in this case actually understands better than the adult.


Thursday 4th June 2020


Most country churches seem to have Bats that live in their churches. They can be very messy and cause quite a few problems. Unfortunately, it’s not an unusual problem and bearing in mind that bats have legal protection it can be a difficult issue for the clergy. Three members of the clergy were discussing the problem one day and swapping idea about how they might alleviate the problem.

One said he put nets out below the ceiling so that any mess made by the bats was captured before it reached the pews or the altar. Another said that he had tried using incense in church because he had heard that bats did not like it and tended not to roost where it was used. Unfortunately, a lot of the congregation didn’t like it either.

The third said I have solved the problem! How the others asked? I baptise them and put them on the electoral roll he said. ‘I haven’t seen them since!’

The church is very often taken advantage of in this way. Even in this so-called secular age we are asked to perform wedding and baptisms when we know perfectly well that we will not see the participants again. It’s a shame of course but spirituality and nearness to God are not dependent on people coming to our particular church. God is quite capable of reaching whoever he wants to without our presence. Our job is to keep the house open for whoever and whenever it is needed.


Wednesday 3rdJune 2020 


What’s so Funny?

I enjoy using humour in both my sermons and in these thoughts for the day. If it makes me laugh then I am sure it will make you laugh too. I sometimes think that in another life I would have enjoyed being a stand-up comedian. However, just making you laugh is not the sole aim of what I am doing here. Experience shows that people listen more closely and remember for longer something that is told to them with a bit of humour included in it and one of the jobs that I was commissioned to do at my ordination was to teach.

It is not often recognised that Jesus himself used a lot of humour in his teaching and I am sure the people of the time would have reacted favourably to it. Jesus laid his hands on Peter’s head and said ‘Upon this rock I will build my church’. I am sure he was aware of the double meaning. ‘The idea of the blind leading the blind’ would probably have seemed funny to his audience.  ‘What idiot would place a lamp under a bushel or under a bed and not on the lampstand?” and so on. We have so pressed and minutely examined what Jesus said and did that we have pressed out the life that was there. Laughter is every bit a human experience as suffering and we should not forget that Jesus said ‘I bring life and I bring it more abundantly’

And for today’s memorable humour. The young curate said ‘would any lady who wishes to join the young Mothers group please see me in the vestry after the service.’



Monday 1st June 2020


Occasionally in my life I have been asked to get involved with RE and one of the questions I liked to pose to senior school children was this.

Two Friars were in London for the day and whilst they were standing outside one of the many churches to be found there, they unfortunately witnessed a car accident. One of the Friars said to the other ‘quick you go in to the church and pray for the people involved in the accident and I will go and see what I can do to help.’

The question I asked was ‘which one was right?’ the practical helper or the one who went into the church to pray. Normally the first reaction from the class was that the practical helper was the one who was correct. They justified this because they would say praying would not have done anything useful. After a while though this would lead to a debate about what we actually do when we pray. It would get interesting after that.

Of course, like many things there is no easy right answer and both action and prayer have their place. The difficulty for us often is working out what that place is.

The question really is   what is prayer?



Friday 29th May 2020



Judging people is something we tend to do automatically. We look at their clothes, we listen to how they speak, we like to know what job they do. It is very difficult not to Judge using our chosen criteria.


When I was growing up it was generally expected that on Sunday one should put on ones ‘Sunday best’ clothes for going to church – I am sure many of you will have had the same experience. The youth club therefore was rather frowned upon for tending to turn up to Communion in jeans and T-shirts. The fact that 20 or so people in the age range 15 to 20 were coming to church was quietly ignored in favour of complaints about inappropriate dress.


On investigation it became clear that those who thought one should put on one’s best clothes held the, probably unspoken, theological view that we had to honour God by making every effort to look our best when attending church.


It also became clear that the youth club members were not intending to be disrespectful but that they had a different but equally valid theological point of view and that can be best summed up in the statement ‘this is me and I come before you as I am without pretence’.


Neither position is right or wrong. In fact both are good.


When we understand where people are coming from in this way, we can begin to see why Jesus was so emphatic that we should not judge each other.




Thursday 29th May 2020


One day, an antique collector was walking through a town when he noticed an old cat lapping milk from a rather ornate bowl outside the front door of a house. The bowl caught his eye and his expertise told him that it was extremely old, rare and consequently very valuable. He resolved to get the bowl. He went up to the front door rang the bell and when eventually the aged occupant answered the door. He offered to buy the cat.

The aged householder replied, "I’m sorry, but the cat isn’t for sale.”

The collector said, "Please, I need a hungry cat around the house to catch mice. I’ll pay you twenty pounds for that cat."

Eventually the owner was persuaded to part with the cat for £25.

As the collector picked up the cat and turned to leave, he said casually almost as an afterthought, "Look I’ve paid you quite a lot for this cat I wonder if you would mind, if I took this old bowl as well? The cat’s used to it and it’ll save me from having to get something else for it to drink from."

The owner replied, "I’m really sorry but you see that’s my lucky bowl“: “Lucky Bowl – what do you mean lucky bowl?” Well the owner replied “so far this week I’ve sold sixty-eight cats because of it."

I have two questions for you. Were either householder or the dealer who tried to get the bowl cheaply behaving morally? What do you think we as Christians should have done if we were in either of their positions?


Wednesday 27th May 2020

Literal Understanding

A mum and dad decided it was time to have their three children baptised. So, they arranged classes and eventually the time came. On the designated Sunday morning as they were on the way to church the mum noticed that her nine year old seemed unusually quiet and preoccupied.

When asked what the problem might be the child said ‘mum I would like to go first please.’ Impressed by the child’s keenness she asked ‘Why do you want to go first?’ Reluctantly the child finally answered ‘well I don’t really want to be Baptized in the water that has my brother and sister’s sins floating around in it.’

We have to be so careful when explaining things to children because they often see the world very differently from adults. There is a whole framework of understanding behind some of our most simple of beliefs that we tend to take for granted. When we preach that baptism washes away our sins why would a child not think they are floating around in the water? It’s a minefield that we have to navigate when we try to teach the faith.



Friday 22nd May 2020

A scientist decided he wanted to study the behaviour of frogs so he started off with the simple stuff.


The scientist marked out a measured course put the frog on the start line and said ‘Jump froggy jump’. The frog obligingly jumped four feet so the researcher wrote down in the research note book ‘frog with four legs jumps four feet’.


The scientist then found a frog with only three legs and put it on the start line and said ‘jump froggy jump’. This frog also obligingly jumped but this time only three feet. The researcher wrote in the research book ‘frog with three legs jumps three feet.


Similarly, it was that found that a two-legged frog only jumped two feet and a one-legged frog only jumped one foot. The researcher duly noted all this data in the research note book.


At last the researcher came to the frog with no legs. As with the others it was placed on the start line and told ‘jump froggy jump’. Nothing happened. The researcher tried again but louder ‘jump froggy jump’. Still nothing happened. The researcher then wrote in the note book.   ‘Frog with no legs deaf!’


It is so easy to jump to the wrong conclusion even in the face of all the evidence!



Thursday 21st May 2020

In his autobiography, Mahatma Ganda told of his time as a student in South Africa. He reported that he had become deeply interested in the Bible particularly Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount.

He became convinced that Christianity held the answer to the caste system in India. The caste system has long plagued India and it prevents particularly lower caste individuals from progressing beyond the limits of their social position. He was so serious in fact that he said he considered becoming a Christian himself.

One day he tested his enquiry out and decided to attend a Communion service and then get further instruction. Unfortunately, he was stopped at the door and told that if he wanted to attend church, he was most welcome but that he should go to one reserved for Blacks.

He never followed up with his enquiries but still never disregarded Christianity entirely. When asked about it one time he reportedly said:

“Oh, I don’t reject Christ. I love Christ. It’s just that so many of you Christians are so unlike Christ”.


Wednesday 20th May

When I was little, I seem to remember a phrase that older people used quite often in adverse circumstances and that was ‘Mustn’t grumble’. It then seemed to move into the repertoire of comedians and then by today you rarely hear it at all. I suspect it became popular during the first world war when the situation was often difficult and times were hard. Continued grumbling is never pleasant to listen to and often there is little that can be done to rectify the situation anyway. So it is energy poorly spent

I think it was recognised that society runs better and is happier when people work together giving thanks for what they do have rather than grumbling about what they haven’t got.

I heard a story about an older person who was renowned for staying positive. Unfortunately, this older person one day tripped and fell down stairs. They were duly taken off to hospital and luckily found to have no serious injuries. ‘Mustn’t grumble’ the person told the doctor with a smile ‘that’s the fastest I’ve moved for years.’

We can always find something to celebrate even in the most difficult of situations.


Monday 18th May 2020


A Doctor went to have his haircut and when it cam time to pay, the hairdresser refused to take any money saying that Doctors had done so much for the country that he could have this haircut for free. The next morning when the barber opened shop door, he found a hamper of fruit outside with a note of thanks in it.

A Nurse also showed up for a haircut and again the barber refused payment as a vote of thanks for all that nurses had done to look after the people. The next morning, a bottle wine was found at the door also with a note of thanks on it.

Later that day a politician turned up for a haircut and again the hairdresser refused payment as a vote of thanks for the leadership shown in the crisis. The next morning when the hairdresser opened the door, he found a line of politicians waiting outside for a haircut.

Stereotypes are useful for the media as a kind of shorthand and they use them a lot but in fact their use is sloppy journalism and it can be very misleading. Stereotypes are fun to play with but that is all they are – fun. People are not really stereotypes.

The Christian faith does it best to look at people as individuals. The book of Revelation speaks of each of us being given a stone with our name on it. This is a recognition of as us as individuals and not a stereotype.



Friday 15th May 2020 


Gnaeus Piso once Roman governor of Syria is said to have interpreted the applause of his soldiers as an attempt to undermine his authority and to question his judgement. It sounds silly but then Cyrus the Great of Persia was so incensed and took it as a personal insult when one of his favourite horses was drowned will crossing the deep river Gyndes that he declared he would so weaken the river that it could be ‘crossed by women without getting wet above the knees’. Seneca a Roman thinker said that such reactions stemmed from an ‘abjectness of spirit’ which itself stemmed from a persistent fear in ourselves that we somehow derive ridicule.


And it is too easy to dwell on things that happen particularly when we are in isolation as we are now. Such things can build up.


Did such and such not return my phone call because they don’t like me or, when I saw them, they were in a hurry and rushed off not speaking much; were they trying to avoid me? It may simply have been that the person wanted to have a longer phone call and was setting aside a better time or that they rushed off because they had a commitment and were late for it.


In isolation there may not be anyone to tell us to snap out of it or tell us we are being silly. It is easy to fall into the trap that Seneca described. But he went on to say that the only cure for such fears and thoughts was ‘to learn to be a friend to myself’. ‘You may be sure’ he said ‘that such a person is a friend to all mankind’.



Thursday 14th May 2020

I like to refer back to Judaism from time to time as in it are our Christian roots.

The Shulchan Aruch (Hebrewשֻׁלְחָן עָרוּך [ʃulˈħan ʕaˈrux], literally: "Set Table"), but sometimes known as the Code of Jewish Law, is the most widely consulted of the various legal codes in Judaism.  Together with its commentaries, it is the most widely accepted compilation of Jewish law ever written.

Here is a passage from it that we as Christians would do well to remember and to consider.

“The manner of sitting, movement and affairs of a person, when alone in the house are not the same as when in the presence of a great king. One’s manner of talk and boasting when among one’s own family and friends is likewise not the same as when in the company of a king.   In the latter case a person would certainly take precautions that his or her movements and manner of speech be properly prepared. So much more should one be cautious then when considering that the Great King, the Holy One, blessed be he, whose glory fills the whole world always stands near and observes our doings.”


God be with you this day and every day.



Wednesday 13th May 2020

The FIsherman and the Frog


I enjoy doing these thoughts for the day and I particularly enjoy the feedback the generate. It has become apparent from the feedback that a range of different thoughts is needed to accommodate the different circumstance and condition of the audience.

A country priest was in the practice of going fishing when ever he could find the time. One day sitting on the riverbank he notices a frog sitting on a lily pad nearby. The frog spoke to him and said.   ‘I am really a princess who has been cursed but if you kiss me I will turn back into a princess and reward you handsomely.’ The priest smiled picked up the frog and placed it in his fishing bag.

From the bag a voice could be heard. ‘told you I was a princess, kiss me and I will make you happy for the rest of your life!’ Again, the priest ignored the frog.

Again, the voice from the bag said. ‘What is wrong with you?’ Didn’t you hear what I promised?’

The old priest finally smiled and spoke. ‘Frog it is kind of you to offer but at my time of life I would prefer a talking frog to a princess but thank you.’

Understanding your audience right is everything! This is true for all of us and not just preachers.


Monday 11th May 2020

Hillel and Shammai

Hillel and Shammai were highly respected doctors of the Jewish law who lived and operated around Jerusalem just after the time of Jesus. They both had their own schools of disciples. They were often consulted on points of law and how one should conduct one’s personal and communal life.   That they had different approaches is summed up in the saying circulated at the time that said " Let a man be always humble and patient like Hillel, and not passionate like Shammai".

It is interesting to note how close some of the thoughts expressed by Hillel were very close to the ideas and concepts that Jesus proclaimed. It shows that Jesus was well ‘plugged in’ to part so the establishment thinking on the Jewish Law.

A heathen came to Shammai and said ‘I will be come a convert to Judaism on condition you teach me the entire Torah while I stand on one foot’. Shammai chased him away with a stick. He then went to see Hillel and said the same thing ‘I will become a convert if you teach me the whole Torah whilst I stand on one foot’.

Hillel replied ‘Whatever is hateful to you do not do to your neighbour. That is the entire Torah. The rest is merely commentary. Go and learn it.’


Friday 8th May 2020


American Servicemen in Britain

Today I am going to read to you from a little book that all American service people coming to the UK were given in 1942 to help them understand the British with whom they would be living and working

…. For many months the people of Britain have been doing without things which we Americans take for granted. But you will find that shortages, discomforts, blackouts and bombings have not made the British depressed. They have a new cheerfulness and a new determination born out of hard times and tough luck. After going through what they have been through it is only human nature that they should be more than ever determined to win…

…At home in America you were in a country at war. Since your ship left port, however you have been in a war zone. You will find that all of Britain is a war zone and has been since 1939….

…. Use your head before you sound off, remember how long the British alone held Hitler off without any help from anyone…

…..You are coming to Britain from a country where your home is still safe, food is plentiful, and lights are still burning. So, it is doubly important for you to remember that the British soldiers and civilians have been living under tremendous strain….

… Remember crossing the ocean doesn’t make you a hero. There are housewives in aprons and youngsters in short pants in Britain who have lived through more high explosives in air raids than many soldiers saw in the first-class barrages of the last war.

It is good to see ourselves as other see us. This gives a vivid insight into how the Americans saw us in 1942. Most appropriate for today, I think.




Wednesday 6th May 2020

The Jewish faith has a long tradition of accumulating and recording stories, acts and saying outside of the regular scriptures. They are the fruit of much study of the human condition over 3000 years and of the scriptures themselves. This collection may be found in the Talmud. The wisdom found there is well worth listening to. For instance, this story attributed to Rabbi Baruka of the 5th century.


Rabbi Baruka was standing in a market place when the prophet Elijah appeared to him. Baruka asked the prophet if anyone among the people there who was destined to share in the world to come. Elijah looked around and he pointed at two people. Baruka went over two the pair and asked them what they did to find out why they should be so deserving.


In reply to his question they said “We are merry-makers. When we see a person who is downcast, we cheer him up. When we see two people quarrelling with one another, we make peace between them.” Gaining entry into heaven is not complicated.

Monday 4th May 2020

My Grandmother who died at the age of 94 was a very strong-willed lady. In fact she could be quite difficult. When she was 85 I went around to see her and found her in what she called her gardening clothes. On asking her what she had been doing she replied that she had been cutting the grass for the old people next door. Now I know that those ‘Old people next door’ were in fact in their 70s and at least ten years younger than my grandmother.

A similar older person was interviewed by a reporter. He asked what advice she would give to people of a similar age. She replied that ‘at our age it is very important to keep using our potential or it dries up. It is important to be with people and if possible, to be of service to someone. That is what keeps us alive and well.’

I am sure that my grandmother would have agreed. She rarely used a bus if she could walk and heartily disliked being inactive.

It worries me therefore when the government wants to take all these things away from the over 70s in a blanket order that they should all stay inside for their own good. The irony is that in such clumsy attempt to protect the elderly, will deprive many of their reason to be alive.

Luckily, I can hear my grandmother’s response in my imagination. ‘I’d like to see them try’ she would have said.


Friday 1st May 2020


This is a story borrowed from the author Anthony de Mello

A dialogue between a sceptic and her newly converted friend.

So, you have decided to follow Christ, have you?


‘Then you must know a lot about him’. ‘Tell me in what country was he born?’

‘I don’t know’

‘How old was he when he died’

‘I have no idea’

‘How many sermons did he preach’

‘I really don’t know’

‘You don’t appear to know much about the person you have decided to follow then, do you?’

‘You are right. I am ashamed about how little I know of him’. ‘I do know this much though. Three years ago, I drunk to much every day, I was in debt, my family was falling to pieces, my wife and family would dread my returning home each night. But now I have given up drink, I am out of debt and ours is a happy home. All this Christ has done for me. I know all that I need to know for now.

From Song of the Bird ty Anthony de Mello 1982



Thursday 30th April 2020

Sermons always worry me. Is it too long? Is it too short? Are the ideas I am putting forward simple enough not to confuse people or are the ideas I’m putting forward intellectual to engage the minds of the congregation? I can tell you that it can be a real headache. I prefer a conversational style myself whilst other preacher are much more formal. Which is best?

I am sure that I am not the only priest who after a sermon has had someone come up to me to say that they were really moved by what I said and that I spoke directly to them. Then when telling back what so moved them, I realise I actually never said that at all!   Very often the content of a sermon is in the ear of the beholder. Do we hear what we want to hear or is it the work of the Holy Spirit operating through my words?

After a very long and boring sermon the parishioners filed out of the church saying nothing to the preacher. Towards the end of the line was a thoughtful person who always commented on the sermons. "Vicar, today your sermon reminded me of the peace and love of God!" The Vicar was thrilled. "No-one has ever said anything like that about my preaching before. Tell me why." "Well - it reminded me of the Peace of God because first it passed all understanding and it put me in mind of the Love of God because it endured forever!" 

Sometimes we just can’t win!


Wednesday 29th April 2020


A new female priest was appointed to be vicar of a rather staid and traditional parish to a fishing village near the sea. Whilst she was accepted by many in the parish some of the traditionalists on the church committee had a hard time with the new situation. However, they were fair minded and wanted to be as gracious as they possibly could.

Now one of the traditions of this parish was that the priest should bless the fishing boats at the annual festival. So when the time came the new vicar and a few of the committee members got into one of the boats in preparation for the ceremony.   The boat went then out into the middle of the harbour. Suddenly the vicar realised she had forgotten her prayer book which she had left in the car. ‘I’m sorry’ she said ‘I’ll have to go back and get it’. Whereupon she stepped out of the boat walked across the water to the harbour wall went up the steps to her car got her book and walked back over the water to the boat and got back in.

‘Typical’ said one of the more sceptical committee members. ‘Just like a woman always forgetting something!’

Sometimes our prejudices can be so strong we fail to see the miracle before our eyes because of them.


Monday 27th April 2020

A fervent and newly ordained curate was using the humble squirrel as her example for the Sunday Children’s service. ‘I am going to describe something to you’ she told the children, ‘and I want you to raise your hand if you can tell me what it is’. The children waited eagerly.

‘This thing is an animal and it lives in trees’ said the curate – No hands went up.

‘It likes to hide nuts’ she said.’ Still no hands went up.

‘It comes in two varieties one Red and one Grey. Nothing.

‘It has a long bushy tail she said and leaps from tree to tree.’ Some of the children looked thoughtful but still no-one said anything.

Eventually a boy at the back put his hand up. ‘I know the answer must be Jesus he said but it sounds like a squirrel to me!’

Teaching the faith is difficult and it is amazing how children pick up nuances in what we say that we did not even suspect were there.


Friday 24th April 2020

A wealthy man was so concerned at the thought of being parted from all his wealth when he died that he decided to try and do something about it.


He started praying to God asking if in his case an exception might be made and that he be allowed to take his wealth with him. One night angel was sent from God to explain to the man that the rules were quite clear and there were no exceptions. “Nobody brings in anything from Earth to Heaven” the Angel said.


The rich man was not accustomed to giving up. He did not become rich by giving up at the first obstacle so he carried on praying and in fact increased the frequency and the fervour of his prayers. After a while the Angel again appeared to him and said “Alright God has heard your prayers and will allow you one suitcase in which you can pack what you like”.


The man was overjoyed. Eventually he did die and he found he was allowed one suitcase as promised. He filled the suitcase with Gold bars as the best way to carry his wealth. Arriving at the pearly Gates St Peter came out to greet him and saw the case. “Oh yes he said I remember you - well you’d better let me look in the case then”. The man opened the case to show off his gold bars. “St Peter looked for a moment and the said in a surprised way. “Pavement why on earth have you brought pavement slabs to heaven?”


Sometimes we get so fixated on what is important to us here on Earth that we forget to realise that what is important here may not be so important in the hereafter.



Thursday 23rd April 2020






I know it is St George’s day to today but I spoke yesterday about stories and how important they are at transmitting truth but of course stories need not be told with words. I wanted to carry on that theme for a bit.

Take a look at the painting of a tailor by Giovani Battista Moroni. It seems to me that there is a story here just bursting to get out.

He is a man at work and clearly, he is confident and a professional. He is well groomed reasonably young - I am terrible at judging ages at the best of time but he looks youngish to me. He is dressed in good clothes which from the way the light falls shows that the material is expensive. Therefore, one may assume that he earns a good living and is probably well regarded by is customers and community. He is looking straight at us the viewers unafraid, or not intimidated, by rank or status and seems to invite us to explore his world.

I wonder if we lose the ability to really look at pictures and explore their story in this modern world where images are two a penny.


Wednesday 22nd April 2020

Jesus was a great story teller but he did not invent the medium.  The teaching of truth through the use of stories was and is a great Jewish tradition. 


In Jewish mythology there is the story of the teacher who gave his teaching only in parables and stories, which his disciples listened to with pleasure and occasional frustration.  They clearly did not understand all that they were being told and sometimes they longed for something deeper and more complex.  The rabbi was unmoved by their protestations and complaints.  To all their objections he would say, "You have yet to understand my friends, that the shortest distance between a human being and a Truth is a story."


Another time he said "Do not despise a story just because it is simple.  Many truths are at their heart very simple.  A lost gold coin is found by means of a penny candle; the deepest truth is found by means of a simple story."  Somehow a story can encapsulate a truth in a way that that thousand hours of lectures or sermons cannot.


Monday 19th April 2020

Today Tony Gilbert showed a book with prayers especially written for the Covid-19 crisis by Barbara Glasson, President of the Methodist Conference .

It can be downloaded from

www.CofE.io/ChurchOnline    The whole book is 32 pages but you can copy and print the pages you want.


He shared one of the prayers:

We are not people of fear;

we are people of courage.

We are not people who protect our own safety:

We are people who protect our neighbour's safety.

We are not people of Greed:

we are people of generosity.

We are your people God,

giving and loving,

whatever it costs

For as long as it takes

wherever you call us.


Good Friday 10th April 2020

The Absent Minded Professor

There was once a theological professor who was always so absorbed in his work and higher thoughts that he forgot the simplest details of everyday life. One morning his wife said, "Now Henry, remember, we are moving house today. I have sorted everything out so here, I'm putting this note in your pocket with our new address. Don't forget we are moving!."

The day passed and the professor preoccupied with what he considered to be other weightier matters forgot all he had been told and went home to his old house. He still had the key and he entered the front door. Unsurprisingly he found the place empty. Distraught, he walked out to the curb and sat down wondering what to do now. A young boy walked up to him, and he asked him, "Little boy, do you know the people who used to live here?"
The boy replied, "Yes, Dad, mum said you'd forget everything she told you."

The ‘Higher things’ is a dangerous thing. It stops us paying due regard to the everyday and makes us forget the important message because believing we know it we concentrate on what we consider to be more important things. Before long we have forgotten the message and it’s meaning and are fully taken up with those other things. Like the professor. He was to taken up with his thoughts that he did not listen to his wife when she told them he was about to move. He did not need to listen because he knew where they lived – or thought he did. It’s the same with Good Friday – we think we know it. This year though everything is thrown into the air and the old certainties are changing. Time to look at the stories more closely perhaps.




Maundy Thursday 9th April 2020

Children Will Learn About Christianity as they Grow Up

Today is Maundy Thursday but did you know the word “Maundy” comes to us as from an Anglo-French word derived from the Latin “mandatum,” which means “commandment.” It refers to when Jesus, in the Upper Room during the Last Super, said to the disciples: “A new commandment I give you, that you love one another; even as I have loved you, that you also love one another.” (John 13:34, Revised Standard Version).  We are always learning.

I often hear parents say that they don’t want to worry their children with religious matters ‘let them make their own decisions when the grow up’ they say. My reply is that they might learn these things if they go to Church with you but otherwise how are they to do so? On what knowledge will they be able to base their decision as a grown up? There are few places for them to gain such knowledge. So, on what grounds will they make their decision? We are lucky in this benefice in having church schools that do teach about Christianity and other faiths in a very balanced way. However, teaching about something is not the same as experiencing it. Some parents are keen to have their baby christened but again are content to take no further action somehow expecting their child absorb Christianity as he or she grows up but with no actual exposure to it. Don’t get me wrong, I am very pleased that parents and children do come forward for baptism (Christening) and I am sure that God can do miraculous things but it would be nice to meet him halfway! In all the Churches in this benefice we try to be open, friendly and welcoming and we try to teach anyone who asks what it means to be a Christian. In fact, finding the answer to that question is a lifelong study. But however long it takes we are convinced that it does improve our quality of life along the way and who could ask for more for their children? What better way to celebrate Easter than trying to teach our children more about Christianity.